Making friends, in the energy of love

Newsletter April 2026 – Want More Friends?

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What is a friend? A friend is someone whose vibrational frequency is compatible with yours and who would like to travel the path of life with you for some, or perhaps all, of it.

Many people confuse friendship with acquaintances, or with people who are simply in their orbit but where the frequencies do not match.

The best way to have good friends is to know who you really are, be who you really are, and be unafraid to show your actual self. Of course, it works best if you are in balance and have allowed the best version of your actual self to be present.

Be vulnerable, be a good listener, be joyful, be helpful, be kind. Know that everybody has issues they are dealing with and accept that at times they may appear spiky – that’s OK it’s just the unhealed parts of themselves they are showing. If you are turning up as the best version of your actual self, you will be able to see past that and see their actual true self.

Quality not necessarily quantity is important for true friendship.

Work on yourself, love yourself, and be aware of the other person’s vibration.

(For the Meditation, I channelled a special message from my Dad, a very special person and who had a wonderful ability to instantly connect with people.)

Meditation

This meditation helps you put the message into practise.

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